Alejandra: The Pressure of the Word ‘Sacrifice’.

In pursuit of happiness: “The moment it’s not fun for them, surely we stop”

This “Behind the Boots” clip delves into Alejandra’s unique perspective as a parent who guided her two sons through a Premier League academy for over a decade. 

Drawing from her background as a psychologist, Alejandra emphasises the significance of sparing children from unnecessary stress. She highlights the importance of parents choosing to support their child’s journey wholeheartedly, free from resentment. Alejandra suggests it’s time to reassess the situation if the joy dissipates for the children. 

With a fresh and enlightened outlook, she successfully navigated the intricate landscape of youth football, recognising the adverse effects of undue pressure on both the child and the parent. 

This is a clip from the Behind the Boots podcast, where we share the rare and unique stories of parents/caregivers raising young football players. 

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